Standing Out in the Crowd: References that Set Your College
Application Apart
With more than 20,000 applications flooding some major universities
annually, it may take a little something extra for your submission to
stand out in the stack.
One key in ensuring that an admissions team sees your positive attributes
is to choose good references. Typically, colleges require the
following information with each application:
• A listing of your academic capabilities (reflected in your grades)
•
A personal essay
•
Two or more letters of recommendation
While your academic achievements and personal essay are aspects you
can "control," you
may feel at the mercy of your references in terms of what they say about
you in the letters they write. These letters are, after all, extremely
significant in terms of providing a third-person perspective on who
you are as an individual. And their extra touch personalizes your application
for admissions officers, adding a human element to the words
on a piece of paper.
But you have more control over the words that go into your letters of
recommendation than you probably realize. That’s because you choose
who will write those letters. Choosing who writes them can make all the
difference in the world.
Who you choose: BE PICKY!
In selecting someone to write your recommendation, you should consider
a number of elements. To help you remember what each of these elements
are, use the acronym BE PICKY and you’ll choose only the best,
most suitable letter writers:
Break down a list of people whom you know well, and who know you well,
also. Consider:
•
Coaches
•
Teachers
•
Employers
•
Musical Directors
Eliminate those who would not be able to state anything specific about
your positive traits.
Prepare
and ask! Make sure you have all the required forms your recommender
may need, including a stamped, self-addressed envelope for each school
for which you are requesting a letter. Remember, these individuals are
doing you a favor! Be as organized and helpful as possible.
Initiate a time to meet with the referrer to explain what you need from
him or her. Simply leaving the request in a mailbox or on a desk or sending
an e-mail message allows opportunities for your request to get misplaced.
Check in occasionally. It is your responsibility to be sure all deadlines
are met. Plus, the person writing your letter may also be writing recommendations
for others with different deadlines for each letter. A friendly reminder
not only keeps you on track, but keeps your recommender on track too.
Kindness is owed! Be sure to show your appreciation for the referrer for taking the time to help you. Remember, this is a favor he or she
is doing for you.
You are on your way! With
solid recommendations from the people who know you best - those who can
offer specific examples in clear,
concise letters - you are on your way to becoming a student at
the college of your dreams!